According to AskMen.Com the top 10 female fantasies are:
10. Sex with a stranger
9. Group sex
8. Dominating a man
7. Being watched/having an audience
6. Being sexually ravaged/being controlled/having a master/being submissive
5. Sex with a woman
4. Being paid (stripper or prostitute)
3. Sex with two men
2. They want to BE the man...yes, using a strap-on with their male partner
1. Forced sex
So there you have it.
For the men that may be reading this, here's what you need to remember...many fantasies are meant to remain fantasies. Just because a woman may be turned on by the thought of something doesn't mean that she actually wants it to happen. Then again, maybe she does. Why don't you ask her? Communication is the key to any relationship!
I'm interested in hearing people's thoughts about this list. Did any of the fantasies surprise you? I'll admit that number 2 surprised me a bit. Were there any fantasies that you thought should/would have made the list that didn't? Do you have any additional thoughts or comments on the subject?
As an incentive for you to share your thoughts (some might call it a 'bribe' but I prefer the word 'incentive' ) everyone who leaves a comment on my blog between now and August 20th will be entered into a drawing for a box of Godiva chocolates. YUM! The winner will be announced on August 21, 2006. I DO need your email address so that I can contact you in the event that you win the drawing. For those that prefer to comment anonymously please send a copy of your post, along with your email address to firstname.lastname@example.org Be aware that I will be posting on my blog the winner's first name, last initial (if they prefer that their last name not be posted), and state of residency.
Now, I just realized that this particular topic may leave some with the impression that I write erotic romance. I do :) However, the book that is being released in September is not an erotic romance, it’s a sensual romance. I am hopeful, though, that one of my erotic romances with be released in the near future.